
LAWFUL LISTENING
Luke 10:38-42 NET
38 Now as they went on their way, Jesus entered a certain village where a woman named Martha welcomed him as a guest. 39 She had a sister named Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet and listened to what he said. 40 But Martha was distracted with all the preparations she had to make, so she came up to him and said, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do all the work alone? Tell her to help me.” 41 But the Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things, 42 but one thing is needed. Mary has chosen the best part; it will not be taken away from her.”
The reason I wanted to stop and look at this story in the life of Jesus is like the reason we stopped and looked at the parable of the Good Samaritan last week. This will become more evident as we look at the story. It is a simple story, and you will notice that there is no direct command from Jesus in the story. In fact, in the story, Martha asks Jesus to command Mary to do something, but he refuses her request.
Notice the characters in this story.
The first character we see in the story is Jesus. He is stopping at a certain village. Luke does not mention the name of the village, but we know from John that the sisters lived in Bethany. Luke tells us that Jesus stopped as “they went on their way.” Jesus is stopping for a rest while his missionaries continue their outreach to the towns and villages of Judea in the south. Even though Jesus is invited into this home for a meal and a rest, he continues to teach the good news to everyone who is willing to hear it. We already know that preaching the message is crucial at this time because this will be the last chance for many of these Judeans to hear the gospel.
The second character in the story is Martha, who welcomed Jesus as her guest. Martha is apparently a wealthy woman, and she might be one of the women who supported Jesus and his apostles as they ministered. She appears to be unmarried but owns her own home. She opens her home to Jesus (and whoever else is with him at the time). She is all about serving the Lord. She has gifts in business management. She is one of those people who is always busy doing something. Her task at hand is to make sure that Jesus has all he needs while he is in her home. She is also task oriented. While Martha and Jesus know each other, it is also clear that Martha is so busy doing things for Jesus that she is not taking the time to get to know him better.
Martha is focused on meeting a need. As such, she is acting like a character we met in Jesus’ parable we recently read about the Good Samaritan. That story did not give us any dialog between the Samaritan and the victim that he rescued. All we read about is what the Good Samaritan did for the victim. He was busy saving the life of this Judean robbery victim. His love for his neighbor was entirely manifested by what he did for his neighbor. That was an important lesson for us because it was intended to show us how to obey the command to love our neighbors. We don’t manifest love by saying “I love you” but by showing our love through our actions.
The apostle James teaches that “If a brother or sister is poorly clothed and lacks daily food, and one of you says to them, “Go in peace, keep warm and eat well,” but you do not give them what the body needs, what good is it? So also faith, if it does not have works, is dead being by itself” (James 2:15-17). Martha’s faith was not dead. It was demonstrated by the care and concern she had for Jesus. If she had anything to do about it, Jesus would not go hungry, and he would get the rest he needed.
We need Marthas in this world. We need people who can see the need and –- like the Samaritan – use their resources to meet those needs. That is how loving our neighbors is done. When Penny and I go to work at the food bank on Thursdays, we are putting our faith into action. We have had the privilege of helping hundreds of local families and it feels good to do that. We also get to see the smiles of those men and women who realize that they are being blessed – and they know that ultimately God is responsible for the blessing. All of you who are able are invited to join us. All it takes is time and energy, and it’s only one day a week. That’s a good thing, because it is hard work, and it is tiring.
Martha was apparently getting tired, too. She looked around at all she was doing. She was busy in this room and needed to be busy in that room. She needed an extra pair of hands. That was when she looked at her sister Mary. Mary hadn’t lifted a finger to help her. She thought that there was something wrong with that picture. Here she is doing everything for everyone while Mary just sat and listened.
Mary is the third character in today’s story. The text says that Mary “sat at the Lord’s feet and listened to what he said.” That sounds simple, but it reveals something quite extraordinary. You might remember that the man the Lord delivered from the legion of demons sat at his feet as well. In fact, sitting at someone’s feet was an expression that indicated that you had committed yourself to be his disciple. Mary was not just interested in what Jesus had to say. She was devoted to him. She recognized what a tremendous gift it was to just be in the Lord’s presence and to hear his words.
Notice the command which was NOT given.
We have been looking at the commands of Jesus, but today’s text has Martha asking Jesus to give a command which he refuses to give. Martha wants Jesus to command Mary to get up and help with the hospitality. There are meals to prepare, rooms to clean, tables to set, animals to tend to, supplies to buy, water to fetch – things to do! Lord! Tell her to get up and help!
“But the Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things…” Martha was distracted. She was worried about things. Jesus loved Martha. You can tell that by the way he responds to her. He called her name twice. That’s called the double vocative construction and it is a way of expressing emotion to the person you are addressing. Jesus is concerned about this lady. She asked Jesus to get her some extra help, but he understood she needed something more than that. She needed to redirect her life. She had been distracted by her many projects and she had missed out on something that should have been her priority.
So, he told Martha “One thing is needed. Mary has chosen the best part; it will not be taken away from her.” Martha had been so busy with many things that she had missed the one thing.
What had Mary discovered that Martha missed? Mary had discovered the one thing that mattered most in that situation. It was not the home that needed looking after. It was not the meal that needed to be prepared or the table that needed to be set. It was not the things that needed to be done. It was the heart that needed to hear the word of God.
Notice the context of the story.
Last week we saw that Jesus had been interviewed by a theologian who had asked him what the greatest commandment in the law is. “An expert in religious law stood up to test Jesus, saying, “Teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?” He said to him, “What is written in the law? How do you understand it?” The expert answered, “Love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your strength, and with all your mind, and love your neighbor as yourself.” Jesus said to him, “You have answered correctly; do this, and you will live.” (Luke 10:25-28).
Love is the greatest commandment in the Law. If we want to obey God’s Law, we need to focus on loving God and loving others. The Ten Commandments are a summary of what God called Israel to do so that they demonstrated love for God and their neighbors. Here in Luke 10, we have a parable that Jesus told to show us what a person does if that person loves his neighbor. That is the parable of the Good Samaritan. But stuck at the end of Luke 10 – in the same context – is this real-life story that demonstrates for us what it looks like when a person has committed to loving God with all her heart, with all her soul, with all her strength, and with all her mind.
Mary is wholeheartedly devoted to God and so she is listening to his word coming from the mouth of his Son.
The Law was the word of God to the people of God. In Deuteronomy 5, “Moses called all the people of Israel together and said to them: “Listen, Israel, to the statutes and ordinances that I am about to deliver to you today; learn them and be careful to keep them!” (Deuteronomy 5:1). Then, God gave the commandments. Then, in Deuteronomy 6, we read the Shema (which means, listen!): “Listen, Israel: The LORD is our God, the LORD is one! You must love the LORD your God with your whole mind, your whole being, and all your strength (6:4-5).
Mary had a choice. She could have chosen to pick up an apron and follow her sister Martha and to be worried and troubled about a lot of things. But she chose not to be distracted from her primary purpose: to sit at Jesus’ feet and listen to the word of God.
Now, brothers and sisters, each of us faces the same choice every day. I’m not telling you this because I am a Mary. I’m telling you this because I am naturally a Martha. It is so easy for me to set a schedule and work on a task and do a deed. It is so easy for me to get distracted with all the things I must do and not take time to sit at the feet of Jesus. When I get too busy, I’m inclined to look around and see all the Marys who I think are not working hard like I am. So, today’s message is first to me, and if it applies to you too – then we will have to join in changing our priorities.
Our Master taught us “Don’t worry saying, ‘What will we eat?’ or ‘What will we drink?’ or ‘What will we wear?’ For the unconverted pursue these things, and our heavenly Father knows that we need them. But above all we should pursue his kingdom and righteousness” (Matthew 6:31-33a). How do we pursue God’s kingdom and righteousness? By sitting at his feet, listening to his words, reading his book, and spending undistracted time with God in prayer and meditation. Since most of us are Marthas, we are going to find that we have priorities that are getting in the way of this priority.
Even good things are the enemies of loving the LORD our God with our whole mind, our whole being, and all our strength. God’s message to all of us Marthas is to put the apron down, pick up our Bibles and join Mary at the feet of Jesus. Mary has chosen the best part; it will not be taken away from her. The good things in life are the enemies of the best thing in life because we do not have time to prioritize both.
Now, we will have time to love others and serve others and do a lot of things. But we need time to get to know the LORD our God because we cannot love others without the supernatural empowerment that comes from a heart completely dedicated to knowing and loving God.







